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Dr. Mary Barbera
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Добавлен 16 мар 2008
I've been helping parents and professionals for over 25 years to increase talking, decrease tantrums, improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training, and more!
I started out as an RN and very confused parent of two toddlers, who struggled in different ways. Since my older son's diagnosis with autism and my younger son's journey with being gifted, I earned a PhD, and became a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst, podcast host, best-selling author, and award-winning online course creator!
I provide daily shorts and weekly video podcasts to support parents and professionals helping young children with and without delays or autism.
Whether you’re looking for Positive Toddler Parenting™ strategies, working with children with speech delays, or in search of child-friendly techniques to reduce tantrums, I encourage you to subscribe to my channel and learn to start turning things around today!
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I started out as an RN and very confused parent of two toddlers, who struggled in different ways. Since my older son's diagnosis with autism and my younger son's journey with being gifted, I earned a PhD, and became a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst, podcast host, best-selling author, and award-winning online course creator!
I provide daily shorts and weekly video podcasts to support parents and professionals helping young children with and without delays or autism.
Whether you’re looking for Positive Toddler Parenting™ strategies, working with children with speech delays, or in search of child-friendly techniques to reduce tantrums, I encourage you to subscribe to my channel and learn to start turning things around today!
www.marybarbera.com/terms-2
Autism and Sleep: 3 Tips to Save your Sleep!
Dr. Mary Barbera discusses how to help children with autism sleep through the night in their own bed.
💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
Dr. Mary Barbera shares three effective tips for improving sleep issues in children with autism, drawing from her personal experience with her son, Lucas. These tips include preventing bed entry, calmly returning the child to their bed, and using positive reinforcement.
She also discusses common sleep problems in children with autism, such as irregular melatonin levels, sensory sensitivities, and behavioral patterns, and emphasizes the impor...
💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
Dr. Mary Barbera shares three effective tips for improving sleep issues in children with autism, drawing from her personal experience with her son, Lucas. These tips include preventing bed entry, calmly returning the child to their bed, and using positive reinforcement.
She also discusses common sleep problems in children with autism, such as irregular melatonin levels, sensory sensitivities, and behavioral patterns, and emphasizes the impor...
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Step by Step Guide to Improving Autism and Speech Delays in 2 Year Olds
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Dr. Mary Barbera discusses Nadia’s success with improving autism and speech delays in her son using verbal behavior techniques. 💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m In this episode, Dr. Mary Barbera interviews Nadia, a mother who successfully supported her 2-year-old son Muhammad's...
How to solve speech articulation errors with Rose Griffin
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Dr. Mary Barbera discusses speech articulation errors with Rose Griffin, and how to resolve them. 💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m In this episode, we dive into the early milestones of speech sound development, what speech articulation errors may look like, the importance of ea...
The activity you need to teach colors to children with autism and speech delays
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Dr. Mary Barbera discusses teaching colors to kids with autism and speech delays. 💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m Colors are one of the first skills that early developmental toys focus on, and many people think it is an important language skill to teach. Today, I'm diving into...
Which Autism Book is Best for You? Verbal Behavior Approach or Turn Autism Around?
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Which Autism Book is Best for You? Verbal Behavior Approach or Turn Autism Around?
Using Miss Rachel Videos for Speech Delays and Autism
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Using Miss Rachel Videos for Speech Delays and Autism
Developmental Delays with Dr. Erin Michaud
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Developmental Delays with Dr. Erin Michaud
Autism and Picky Eating: 7 Tips to Solve Feeding Problems
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Autism and Picky Eating: 7 Tips to Solve Feeding Problems
6 Strategies for Stopping Toddler Tantrums and Improving Language
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6 Strategies for Stopping Toddler Tantrums and Improving Language
3 ways to improve speech therapy goals
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3 ways to improve speech therapy goals
Gentle Parenting...Can It Help Stop Tantrums?
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Gentle Parenting...Can It Help Stop Tantrums?
Picky Eating: Here's What You Can Do
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Picky Eating: Here's What You Can Do
Terrible Twos? Or Something More? 3 Assessments you can do NOW!
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Terrible Twos? Or Something More? 3 Assessments you can do NOW!
How can you stop a toddler from hitting and throwing?
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How can you stop a toddler from hitting and throwing?
If Your Child Has a Speech Delay, Watch This Success Story
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If Your Child Has a Speech Delay, Watch This Success Story
Preparing a Toddler for the New Baby...
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Preparing a Toddler for the New Baby...
Is Hand Leading a Sign of Autism? Watch This
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Is Hand Leading a Sign of Autism? Watch This
Turn Autism Around is Ending... BUT WAIT... A New One is Starting
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Turn Autism Around is Ending... BUT WAIT... A New One is Starting
How can you teach group social skills? Help from Kelly Bermingham
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How can you teach group social skills? Help from Kelly Bermingham
5 Lessons Learned from Love on the Spectrum Season 2
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5 Lessons Learned from Love on the Spectrum Season 2
How Many Hours of Therapy Does My Child Need Every Week? - Part 1
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How Many Hours of Therapy Does My Child Need Every Week? - Part 1
What is it like being an autism sibling? With Spencer Barbera
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What is it like being an autism sibling? With Spencer Barbera
Are You Interested in Autism Research? How Intranasal Vasopressin May Improve Autism
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Are You Interested in Autism Research? How Intranasal Vasopressin May Improve Autism
Cruising with Kruz; a Journey from Early Intervention to Autism Preschool
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Cruising with Kruz; a Journey from Early Intervention to Autism Preschool
Stop Waiting Around for an Autism Diagnosis...
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Stop Waiting Around for an Autism Diagnosis...
What is the best medication for stimming in adults?
Where do I get tested? And how much does it cost? I’m 13 and my therapist has been pushing me to try and get a test but I’m scared cause it looks expensive
I am a SPED teacher from the Philippines..would like to send my teachers in one of your classes. What do you recommend and how to go about it?
Thank you so much , my son is 11yrs old now and I thought the worst was over from when he was a toddler...but now at 11 yrs old we are now stuck with difficulty with hygiene...Im on repeat everyday of why hygiene is important and literally making him shower, brush teeth, ..
B12 and Folate, check for the MTHFR gene mutation.
Please help my boy he’s in an institutionalized school that he doesn’t belong in can you please help me get him out
Thanks! I’m gonna try it and hopefully it works!
I know that maybe my anedote case may not be as important as a metaanalysis but Marge Blanc's studies and divulgation about Ann Peters work was the missing piece to understand my daughter. She had a ""late""" diagnosis (almost 4 years old), but I couldn't understand what was going on until I knew about NLA Stages: Stage 1: She was a latter talker, but a earlier "entonation singer" She clearly try to communicate but we couldn't understand, and when we could we get some words in the end of a long long schunk. Stage 2: She starts to combine a lot of sentences we talk to her. At that time I tought She knew some crazy grammar, because She could a lot of tell things in that way. We could see a lot of inversions in pronouns and conjugations, a lot of struggle with answering questions, but She could communicate A LOT in really complete sentences. She also did a lot of imediate echolalia to answer questions in that time. Stage 3: I tought that She had a big regression, She starts to talk only in single words, or combine 2 words. In Stage 2 She could talk in full sentences, so I was so frustrated. Stage 4: Now, She can generate her own language, but not easily, She struggles to make a sentence. Exactly the same way that Marge describes in her book and case studies. But now She can finally answer questions without echolalia and tell things that happened in school. If you analyse language therapy like a medicine who needs a meta-analysis with control group you will say that NLA has no evidence, but if you examine like a biologist or a physicist looking to the logic of the argument and trying to figure out what is going on in this amazing problem, looking kids like my own who don't get their natural process changed to a intensive training, you will see that She and Ann Peters are absolutely correct. This may be a lot harder to see in non-talking kids, but I would not dismiss that without a greater investigation. What we are going to do with this is open to discussion, but Marge case studies are really really impressive. PS: Sorry for any english mistakes, not my first language PS2: Always presume competence. If the kid can't understand you will do no harm, but if you miss a competence you may do the things a lot harder to the kid. The case you said about the kid who was saying "are you happy?" And when you ignore he had a meltdown, He was clearly trying to be understood. And gestals are not literal. You need to try to figure out where they came to understand. They need context.
My 8 yr old sen child hits punches bites me abd kicks me when she doesn't get her way.
Basically a common sense approach
Hi I have a 20 month old and she's not talking and babble at all... When she was a bit younger like around 11 months she was babbling and said a few words also and she suddenly just just saying anything.... What can I do?
My toddler is 2 years old he yells alot understand everything point whatever he needs...but didn't speak i tried alot to make him speak but he didn't... worried about him... didn't respond to his name also
Good morning ma , pls my son is not talking and he 7 years but he hears clearly pls what can I do
Ok but my son stays in his room and just doesn't sleep he just lays there melatonin isn't working and he's 6 on an adult dose
The sleep ebook may help: marybarbera.com/sleep
What about a child who I believe has nighttime anxiety and is just afraid to sleep alone without me? He’s 7 and he’s mostly the “afraid of his own shadow” kind of kid. He tells me he feels safer with me in there and that I keep the bad dreams away. He does sleep in his own bed, never in ours, and I never sleep in his bed with him. I just end up sleeping on a cot in his room at some point during the night. His routine is solid and he falls asleep within 10-15 every night in his own bed. At the beginning of the night after he falls asleep, I leave the room and start the night sleeping in my own bed. During the night at some point he wakes up in a panic, sometimes upset and crying, if he sees I’m not in there and gets scared. That’s when I go into his room and end up just staying because it results in more sleep for me instead of waiting for him to fall back to sleep and leaving again who knows how many times a night. He usually is back to sleep within minutes. I just don’t know how to deal with the being scared part of it. He’s been sleeping in his own room since he was 3 months old.
The sleep ebook may help: marybarbera.com/sleep. Also, a night light, pairing up a stuffed animal, etc.
@@marybarberaI’ll check out the ebook. He already has a nightlight, well before this all started and he has a couple stuffies he sleeps with.
❤how do I join the online community...
Come join me here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
How about locking the child's door?
It's best to lock yours if possible and it is safe. Check out the sleep ebook at www.marybarbera.com/sleep
That doesn’t sound like a good idea. What if they need the bathroom or there is a fire? Not safe.
@@Kyotopearl agree with this
Maryberbera you're good.
Hi my son ain’t chewing he’s food he ain’t eating anything but cream of wheat can you please help me
yes! Learn more with a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Mine screams, eardrum busting scream. She is smart but doesn't form any words or sentences for the negative emotions.
That sounds hard! I have a mini course all about how to tackle these hard behaviors. Learn more here www.turntantrumsaround.com
thank you for the video Dr. Mary Barbera. my son 7 years old non - verbal autistic recently become aggressive with his mother sister and me. his teacher never compline about him when we asks if he is aggressive there. i'm not sure what is the problem. maybe because we recently changes his school (3 month ago. and he start aggressive since then.) thank you for your free workshops i would take a look. Thanks again.
I hope you like the free workshop and also look into medical issues as sometimes when there is a sudden behavior change it could be something like pain or sickness.
My 5 year old will not eat any meat. The only meat is chicken nuggets strictly from McDonald's only. He'll eat rice with boiled vegetables or stir fried. Also he doesn't like sweets except go gurts and apples sauce pouches. He does like spaghetti but will eat around the beef. When I try to introduce new things he will gag or eat around the meat. I'm not sure how else to distrubute more protein in his diet. He has weak muscle tone and will not do protein shakes.
I can help! the easy medium hard food list can start to help you slowly introduce the same foods he eats but more variety in them and then slowly introduce new ones. I have a full module on this in my online courses. Get a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
My 2yrs old baby has a speech delay. He never pointing his finger but my observation they know when Im saying NO so he will stop and then he look at me. He’s always saging daddy, dede, mama, baba. I hope my son will be fine more.
It sounds like that is a bit of a speech delay but you can learn strategies to help him right now! Get started here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Great video, thank you so much. Greeting from El Salvador
Thanks for watching.
Oral B app helped us with our neurodivergent kiddo. We’d tried Chompers podcast, different flavors of toothpaste, different types of brushes. Thanks for the tips!
Thanks for the Tips Advice
No problem!
Thank you x
I appreciate your support!
Congratulations 🎉
This simple strategy works beautifully! It prevents prompt dependency, it’s quick and easy for our learner without frustrating waiting time and it’s easy to fade back to create space for that golden second when our kiddos try to talk.
Yes! thank you for that.
💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
I am 22 yrs old and I am a play partner for a grandmother and mother duo for their 20yr old daughter who has severe autism with asbergers. I have them helping them out for a few months now with playdates and activities and now they want me to talk to their therapist to get me to change my appearance to a younger version of myself to make the daughter feel more comfortable and open up more around her.. Is this right??
For me I made the issue of making my son who has High Functioning Autism, and the main issue was the seat inside the plain were shoulder to shoulder and for him that made the entire trip hell for him, and we thought he was doing good, but the moment we got off that plan and had a whole 6 hours session of getting off the olain and to a family members house that was 2 hours away, it all came to a boiling point and I just felt terrible.
that sounds hard.
My child is three and can't talk much and can't understand messages like get me that thing or I pointed something I say get me that thing he gets confused injustice looking around trying to figure out what I said I'm still couldn't get it I just got to know about autism I'm like woo. I thought maybe she knew what I was saying but refused to comply, she hasn't been diagnosed yet but she has all the sync
Our course and community includes many parents whose children are not diagnosed. Find out more by attending a free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
My child is three and can't talk much and can't understand messages like get me that thing or I pointed something I say get me that thing he gets confused injustice looking around trying to figure out what I said I'm still couldn't get it I just got to know about autism I'm like woo. I thought maybe she knew what I was saying but refused to comply, she hasn't been diagnosed yet but she has all the sync
Our course and community includes many parents whose children are not diagnosed. Find out more by attending a free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
I told my lil baby brother to say yes😂😂
My 13 month old repeated the cats name “Jax” a few weeks ago and has stopped now. He doesn’t repeat it anymore. Same with mama. He was saying it for like a week and has stopped and only says dada again now. I’m worried
He is still quite young but yes regressions can be hard. Have you read my book ? It is low cost and also will give you a road map to how to set things up to promote speech development. Get it on amazon when you search "turn autism around"
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Thanks
Thank you this has helped alot
I don't think choices is taught enough. I was SA at least 3 times because i didn't comprehend this.
God bless you for advocating. My parents said "we didn't know what to do with you." And my lif has been a shit show.
I am a RN (I care for this child 80% of the time) he has a room at my house, I feel his mother is over medicating, because she doesn’t want to hear him, and, or kicking the door! He has circles under his eyes, and seems so sad, and crying constantly over everything he never did before, her husband is an alcoholic, so I’m really concerned! I spent the last week, reducing his medication to the original prescribed amount without adding throughout the day, and cradled him, we went swimming, and I put his headphones on in his room, without any tv, and he was fine with that, and after about 45 minutes or a hour or so, I went back in and interacted, with tons of love, doing the fun little ways of interacting that he loves, and he got really excited to watch one of his cartoons! He woke up happy! When I first started this little test, he was waking up miserable, and already whining, and crying just getting him changed for the day, and ready for breakfast! I have been caring for this child for two years, and worked hard teaching him boundaries! A friend came by, and he slipped out the front door, and I ran out and said C.C his name in a demanding manner, and he stopped dead in his tracks, and didn’t even try to inch his way more, and stood there until I got there, I praised that child to no end, but I’m the only one he will do that for, because I am the only one who takes the time out! His mother admits she isn’t a special needs type! She is very surfaced, and doesn’t get the sensory perception, but I continue to do so! How is this going to play out when I am putting in my all, but the times he goes to see his mom, she doesn’t do the same! 😢
My autistic child is 5 years old, nonverbal, flight risk, and very high functioning, however all of this crying, and whining is a new thing, he never acted like that before!
New behavior can be a sign of something medical or pain related going on! check out my mini course all about reducing behaviors turntantrumsaround.com
@@marybarbera After I had him a few days, we had an amazing time, but when I went to take him to his momma he started clutching his backpack, again never before!
How about the electromagnetic therapy? Whats your take ?
Dr Barbera, whats your take on the biomedical treatments?
It is best to talk to your doctor or functional medicine doctor and take data on any intervention you are doing.
@marybarbera thank you Dr Unfortunately am in Africa where almost all Drs believe that autism is genetical and has no treatment and all of them don't know anything about alternative treatments like biomedical or electromagnetic or even dietary changes
Good afternoon ma.... Thanks so much for all the put up to help everyone suffering from Autism..... My so is 5yrs old he started talking last year and stop again I don't no how to get him control he is always destroying things I am confused and don't no how to control the situation pls... I don't no if u can help me pls
I can help for sure! You certainly should take this free workshop www.marybarbera.com/workshops because I can help with increasing speech and decreasing the destructive behaviors.
What is ABA ? When is it too early in your opinion? My son is 14 months, we are babbling, trying to step, I don’t think he doesn’t understand most things we say to him, he only used his index and middle fingers on both hands. He’s in PT & OT once a week ( I don’t feel like that’s enough 😢) and I am working with him at home but he doesn’t mimic, hes always overly excited when I clap, he’s not trying to clap on his own either. Also not doing and gestures, HOWEVER we just started to get him to hold and bring the spoon to his mouth so now we are working on him actully getting it out of the bowl. Thanks in advance
ABA therapy is basically a science for changing socially significant behavior, we use positive reinforcement to increase behaviors we want to see like talking! I have a full online course for parents like you to learn step by step how to support your child at home and 14 months is a great, early age to start. Get a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
It's called better diagnosis and understanding, though that is obviously still greatly lacking. We aren't defective or diseased either. We just have a different brain function than you. Einstein is thought to have been autistic and Elon Musk is autistic too. Some of the greatest minds are autistic minds. 🤷♀️
I agree, and there are some individuals like my son who are very bright but also need 24-7 care and the rising rate of these numbers is concerning.
truly a life well lived!! Every shot in this video could be a Pinterest post. The way u film ur videos is very unique and will soon enough be appreciated by a much larger audience! Pertaining the last segment of the video, I would love to know more about why you chose to study medicine, how did u know it wasn't for you and how you made the brave decision of quitting med school. Sending u loads of love and support 💗💗